Friday, January 15, 2010

Resolution 2010

Times really fly..Now it's already mid of Jan..I actually had came out with my resolution on the 2nd of Jan..but i only manage to share it now..hehe..

Looking back at the year of 2009 and by refering to my 2009 resolution, i actually did not accomplish well. I think i only manage to accomplish about 30-40% of it..I would say it is not really a remarkable year for me..

Now i have come out with the resolution for 2010..This time i want to be more deligent in following up closely on my resolution..Not only hoping that i will be able to accomplish them but most importantly is to execute the plan with the grace of God..heehehe

Here you go my resolution for 2010:

 
Career
  • Career Switch with $XX salary by end of February 2010
  • Company criteria: well establish company (no more family business), central area, 5 days work, healthy environment, good colleague (less politic issue), excellent boss/superior (someone that can coach me well and care for my career advancement)
  • Will experience job's satisfaction in the new job whereby my talent & skill can be fully contributed
  • Achieve $XX salary by end of 2010
  • Be more resourceful by reading book for personal development (at least one book/year)
  • Updated and aware about news
Relationship
  • To grow my relationship with my family by calling back at least once every two week to update about each other life
  • Go back hometown 2 times this year
  • Go for personal holiday/Go with my mom for holiday
  • To have one peer sister to build a closer and deeper relationship
  • To pray for the "special someone" (pray that God will prepare me to be the right person and find the right person too ^^)
Economic
  • To save $XX by end of the year
  • Apply credit card and use it wisely
Spiritual Life
  • To finish OT by end of 2010
  • To read at least 3 Spiritual book
  • Be consistent in my devotion & prayer life
  • To grow in speaking into people life
  • To grow in the word of prophesy
  • Personal Journaling
  • To develop my leadership skill
Health
  • Eat fruits everyday
  • Drink milk/take calcium everyday
  • Do exercise 2-3 times a week
  • Reduce the intake of fried/oily food (take only once a month for junk food)
  • Drink more water (at least 8 glass of mineral water a day)
  • Lose weight
Character/Personality
  • Reduce procastination
  • Plan Ahead
  • Be firmed in making decision/dare to make mistake and learn from it
  • Confident
  • Security

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Trip to Jakarta - Final Part

I finally ended my holiday in Jakarta and has reached Singapore to start my daily life here again..Well, i started to have a feeling of wanting to stay in Indo..to spend more time with my family. I've been away from my family since I was 17 years..so it is already 10 years now...But I'm still uncertain on what kind of future will i be experiencing..I still do not know how long will i be in Singapore. Am i going to stay long here? Settle down here?? I really hope God will show me which path will I be heading for my future.

Yesterday in the airport when my parent sent me off..I felt sad to be apart from my parent again..n I need to wait for more than half a year to be back to my hometown again..haiz..don't know why am I so caught up in my emotion on that day.

Besides, I have a cousin who has just graduated at Australia. She sent me an email; telling me of her consideration to go back for good to Indonesia. She recon that she has been away from her parent for about 12 years now. And she wishes to spend more time wif her parent now..I wonder why this kind of email come to me at this period of time; where i have the kind of longing to spend more time wif my family as well..

Another things that I did in Jakarta during my holiday, I went for few check up. I did a check up on my cholesterol, "Asam Urat", THT..those kind of things. Just to ensure that everything is ok. I felt really scared when the nurse did the injection to get my blood..huh..don't know when was the last time i went for injection and i really do not like injection...And when i went to THT to check on my nose, the doctor used the special tool to go into my nose..it really makes me uncomfortable..but i just need to endure wif it...

On the last day before i get my result of all the check up...well...i feel very nervous. hoping that nothing is wrong..And I really thank God, that everything went well...I thought i have a high cholesterol but i do not..hoho.so happy..but i've got to control cause the figure is quite close to the normal rate that we should have..And problem on my nose: The doctor said nothing serious. I only need to take care of my food so that i wont get too hitty..And try not to be in the aircon room for too long..well this is something that is more difficult to do cause I'm in the aircon room most of the time...

It's kind of tough to stay healthy in Singapore whereby you always need to take outside food, going back late, taking bath late..everything is not in a proper time. Well, i guess i need to make deliberate effort to make it happen..sometimes i'm not discipline in my eating pattern..haha..i like to eat hitty food. That's why i always fall into that kind of sickness...

I hope this year i can take special care of my health. Amen!!

Monday, January 11, 2010

Trip in Jakarta Part 2

On the second day of my holiday, I managed to go to dentist to "bersihin karang gigi n tambal gigi"...the fee to go for dentist is always very very costly..but it is still better to fix it in Indo rather than doing it in Singapore. It will be two times more expensive..hohoho..

After going to dentist i rushed to one of the shopping mall near my house to do my foot therapy and go to the salon. I was thinking to do my hair for my friend's wedding. But it end up not gud, it did not meet my expectation. Thus i asked the hairdresser to wash my hair again and just blow my hair as per normal..haizz...So disapointing.

There we go, 4 of us went for my friend wedding. This friend of mine named Roslina was finally got married. She has been together wif her boyfriend for about 7 years i guess. This is the longest relationship that she ever had. Hm..it is definately a pleasure for me to witness her marriage. And she gave me "kue penganten"..haha..she said it is for me so that i can find my partner soon too...Amen! I also hope so!

Let me share with you the picture of my friend and I at her wedding ceremony:




The wedding ended around 9 p.m..Guess What!! On the way home, my brother suggested; why not we go for karaoke..hohoho..And we went for karaoke together..I like to go for karaoke at Indo.cause i can sing as many of mandarin song as i like. It has the ping ying that can help me alot when i sing.hahaha..we sing for about 2 hours. And the irritating part is that there is a black out..huh...this is something that is quite common in Indo though.

That nitez i reach home closed to 1 a.m and slept around 2 a.m and i cant wake up the next morning to go to church..Forgive me Daddy in Heaven..huhuhu.

On Sunday I meet my cousin with her daughter. I am quite close with this cousin. We grew up together and played together since we were still a kid. And our house is very near to each other. Only a walking distance thus we often go to one another house to catch up. But after she got married, she moved very very far...sigh. And i can only meet her on Sunday. That Sunday i have a gud time catch up with her and played with her daughter too. She shared with me about her family and the challenge in raising up a kid. Waow what a tough life..

Because both of us having the same problem with our foot, thus our parent ask "Ibu Tukang Urut" to come to her house to massage our body. That is our very first experience. And it is very very very painful. My goodness..i think it is more painful that giving birth to a baby. Even my cousin say so. She was the first one to be massage and she kept on shouting and i can really see that she was in pain. In my mind..Oh No! i didnt know that it will be that painful. Not sure if i can bear with the pain if it is come to my turn. OMG when it come to my turn, i can't describe the pain but it is really painful. The "Ibu" said that i ever fell down and it's been quite sometimes. I didn't really massage the bruise that why it become very painful. And my body also not in the fit condition a.k "masuk angin" thus when she massage my body, it was also very painful. Haiz..one thing that i can describe the massage experience "It is painful"..huh...

Now i only have 2 more days for my holiday..haiz..so sad to end the holiday so soon. I wish i can extend the holiday. I wish i can have one month period for my holiday in Indo. I wonder when will it come to pass..hmm....

Friday, January 8, 2010

Trip in Jakarta Part 1

Today is my second day in Jakarta for my holiday trip. I just arrived yesterday and by the time i reached my home it was already midnight. Nothing much can be done in my first day of holiday.

On my second day, very early in the morning around 8 a.m..my brother knocked on my door and he came in to my room with his kid and wife...haha...my niece is very very shy at the beginning..she did not speak much when i tried to talk and interact with her..According to her mum n dad..she keep on asking about me when i was not arrived yet...few hours later, she started not to be shy anymore. she keep on calling me and asking me lots of question. She asked if i have taken my bath, if i have eaten..she asks me as well where am i going..wahh i think what her parent told me is right. she is very talkative and very active as well..Only shy at the beginning. Well it can still be understood that she is still treating me as a stranger at the beginning cause i only go back once or twice a year..so she hardly recognize me i guess.

I have a gud time playing and taking picture with her..here is some of her picture.



 

Today i went to Mangga dua and Taman Angrek to look for few dresses for my friend's wedding..This year there are many wedding that i will be attending. So i think it's better for me to buy the dresses here..And i manage to get 2 dresses today..hehe..i'm quite satisfied with it.

And at night i went for foot therapy with my mum...It's a promotion for 30 days trials for free..so i just went there and have a tried on it..i think it's quite good. But i can only try it for 6 days when i'm still here. The people said the result will be seen after 14 days of trying it..haiz..But it's ok i will still try it hopefully it will give some effect..

There are many many food that i want to eat here...And today i manage to eat siomay..yummyy...and of course a homecook food by my mum..She cooked my favorite chicken soup, sayur asem, kodok asam manis, and ikan panggang..nyam nyam..hopefully i wont grow fat and i need to make sure that i will do my exercise after i go back to Singapore..hahaha...

Ok that's all for today!

Gud Nitezz...